Dear Lena, I have not, but I have included a particular review with this returned comment. But it looks really good. It seems to fill a whole.
"Pastor Casey does an excellent job of detailing a subject that stumps the best scholars. He handles the subject of "destiny" in a way that is very simple to understand. This book is life changing. This book should be mandatory reading for every high school freshman. (Some should read it before they get to high school.) Knowing and using these concepts can save people years of "searching, hoping and praying" for the right job to come along. It can save parents tution money. Students and parents can learn to identify gifts and callings which can save countless hours of aggravation over the wrong school, wrong major, etc. Grasping and applying the concepts in this book can literally change your life. As I have applied and started to teach these concepts to others, it's as if the "light bulb" has gone on for so many people. I would highly recommend this book and will continue to use it in ministry."
I was concerned for you and have been praying for you and will continue to do so. It is my prayer that God will cause or control the circumstances that would make your husband see Jesus again. In the meantime, because he has rejected Christ and His teachings, Christ himself said,"...he has rejected me". As a result you have "Pauline Principle" on your side which states that if any man or woman rejects the Lord and His teachings and is a believer, he must be treated as unbeliever until he calls upon the name of the Lord and can be restored. Protect yourself and your children and surround yourself with Godly counsel starting with His Word. Trust me, you will be all right....I know from personal experience!
Hello Lena, thank you for entrusting me. Your situation is far advanced to the point your husband has already planned for your demise. You need to seek the counsel of a Christian Attorney immediately! Your husband is trying to scam you out of your rightful share of your marital estate. My Pastor gave me this for advice when I was going through my heart-ache...Marriage is about love, divorce is about money, and if you don't cross that line, Jesus will come to the offender sooner or later. Meaning is, don't make the mistake of loving your support away for old times sake. Your husband appears to be a control addict, and for some reason wants a quick end to a lifetime commitment...he needs to suffer and to know that a lifetime commitment is easily broken. My ex-wife, still can't get used to that term, was the same way. More about me later, this is about you. The second thought is, could that reason for acceleration be because of someone else? Don't know, but you might find out over time and resistance. Eventually you will get worn out and tired of it, or he will have his come to Jesus and come back. But men have to lose everything, and I mean everything to wake up usually. Third thought, I'm concerned for you and your children's well being physically...there are legal and spiritual remedies for those. Don't ever let yourself be assaulted! Get a restraining order on him to protect you and the kids right away or at least a peace bond. Fourth, time to get answers! Be your own private investigator. Find everything you can relating to your lives together that you and he might need for a divorce and get it out of the house somewhere safe...file, computer, etc and start building your case. Fifth, If he is committing adultery, protect yourself sexually, and chances are there is plenty of evidence on your home computer if you look...use it as evidence. When you have done these things, present them to your Pastor so there can be an official church admonishment and the elders can take up your cause as well and the correct story is known. Even in this day in age, many churches still shun women in a divorce, even if the husband is wrong. Finally, if you find your answers, even with the abuse you have enough to file, file on him first as the complainant. This will force him to go on defense instead of offense. Realize this, the service frowns on adultery still, and his buddies are advising him how to get around that. If you find evidence, pass it along to his CO and see if he can help. God Bless! Chappy
I've been there recently...even as a Pastor. The best thing I did, and that I want to encourage you to do, is to surround yourself with good Godly counsel. In my case, I place myself and what was going on underneath the authority of 3 Pastor who were friends, yet didn't know each other. I gave them the true honest story for context, and when something happened that I needed to get advice on, I took it to each one of them. When I had received the same counsel from all 3, who didn't know each other, I know the Holy Spirit was working in it. I NEVER got different counsel EVER from any one of the three, which in turn told me a great deal of those Pastors. My marriage ended, after 18 years, 2 children and so on, and the pain is still there, but I grew so much with the Lord. You must not stop being in His Precious Word either especially at this time, but I thought that would be obvious! Blessings and Peace, "Chappy"
At 9:47pm on September 14, 2009, Andrea Lynn said…
I will pray for you, I went through that before with my husband but everything worked out in the end, or shall I say start.
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"Pastor Casey does an excellent job of detailing a subject that stumps the best scholars. He handles the subject of "destiny" in a way that is very simple to understand. This book is life changing. This book should be mandatory reading for every high school freshman. (Some should read it before they get to high school.) Knowing and using these concepts can save people years of "searching, hoping and praying" for the right job to come along. It can save parents tution money. Students and parents can learn to identify gifts and callings which can save countless hours of aggravation over the wrong school, wrong major, etc. Grasping and applying the concepts in this book can literally change your life. As I have applied and started to teach these concepts to others, it's as if the "light bulb" has gone on for so many people. I would highly recommend this book and will continue to use it in ministry."
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